Freshly sharpened pencils. Brand new sticks of glue. PIles and piles of new books. It’s beginning to look a lot like the school year’s about to start. Are you ready?

The school room is organized. I’ve printed out my homeschool planner for the year. The new curriculum is ready and waiting for us to crack it open. Am I ready?

What might be missing?

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” Deuteronomy 6:5-7

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“Set me free from my prison, that I may praise your name.” Psalm 142:7

Have you ever had a day where everything just went wrong? And you along with it?

Some mornings we all seem to wake up on the wrong side of the bed. My four-year-old tantrums about every little thing. My oldest tries to daydream the day away, instead of focusing on his school work. And me? Well, I react to all of it.

All this month, we are talking about redemption at Christian Stay at Home Moms. To read the rest of this post, visit CSAHM, my writing home today.

Do you remember your marriage before having children? Is it just me, or is it hard to balance raising children and keeping a marriage strong?

When my children were little, I found it especially hard to focus on my marriage. All my energy was focused on taking care of children 24/7. Children are needy and often drain us physically and emotionally. After attending to their needs all day, everyday, there just doesn’t seem to be anything left to put into our marriage.

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I’m over at Christian Stay at Home Moms today. This month we’ve been talking about brokenness and today’s post is the last in the series.

Have you ever met someone who has struggled with the same battle as you? Have you ever helped someone through a difficult journey that you yourself once walked?

I have a friend in the faith who has experienced deep brokenness in her life. Her faith during these painful times has been a testimony to me. Seeing the way God has worked in the life of my friend gives me hope in what He can do in and through my own brokenness.

God not only uses our brokenness to draw us closer to Him, but also uses it to draw others to Himself.

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Spring is here. Flowers are blooming everywhere I look. The trees that last month were dead and bare, now sprout brightly verdant leaves. The air is warm and windows are open wide to let in the fresh spring air.

All this new life is a reflection of the resurrection we just celebrated. Spring reminds us that death comes before new life, brokenness before healing. Emptiness precedes fullness and winter always comes before spring.

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I was sitting around the semicircle of chairs. It was Tuesday morning, the day when our ladies bible study meets at my church. We were going around the room, taking turns sharing prayer requests. I wrote down each person’s request: health concerns, legal issues, rest, healthy pregnancy, etc.

Then it was my turn. Feeling the Spirit’s prompting, I stepped out and requested prayer for my struggle with depression. I opened up about my battle and the challenges I’ve faced.

I wasn’t sure if I had made the right decision, going deeper as I did.

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Have you wanted to go deeper into prayer? My post this week at Christian Stay at Home Moms was on taking steps to a more intimate prayer life. You can see that post here.

Let’s be honest, love is hard.

It’s been a week. The flowers are wilting and the candy is nearly gone. The sweet messages in the Valentine cards are mostly forgotten.

All that’s not forged through hard love is short-lived.

For most of us, the fragrant aroma of love’s soft side is brief and doesn’t last. Life gets in the way. Trials and challenges arise. Instead of sweet messages, words of anger are spit forth. Hard love often leaves a bitter taste.

Why can’t love remain sweet all the time? Why does love have to be so hard?

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“Patience is love for the long haul.” Tim Keller

Glancing at my watch, I call their names again. “It’s time to go!” I had told them ten minutes ago to get dressed. I walk in their room and find them half-dressed and playing. My patience is worn thin and I’m irritated.

Sadly, it doesn’t take much for me to be impatient.

I’ve always heard the phrase, “Patience is a virtue” and “Never pray for patience.” When I think about patience, I think about waiting. If I’ve waited in line at the store without getting irritated, that’s patience. I also consider it a mark of patience to not get annoyed while I wait for my husband to return home from work. And patience is also when I don’t blow my top when my kids don’t get ready on time.

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February is the month of love, or at least that’s what the greeting card companies tell me. The ads I see seem to say that we must show our love by purchasing flowers, candy, jewelry, and of course, Valentine’s Day cards. “Be Mine” and “Yours Always” are one liners strewn across the Valentine aisle at my local store.

Love, it seems, is easier to talk about than to actually do.

My friends and I joked recently that we love our children deeply, yet sometimes, it’s hard to like them. I think we all can relate to experiencing frustrating situations with family members, negatively effecting our view of them. The fact is, it’s often easier to have positive affection and thoughts for loved ones when they do what we expect of them. What about when they aren’t doing what we want? That’s where the rubber meets the road.

Jesus said that even those who are evil love those who love them back.

“But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you.

“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ lend to ‘sinners,’ expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” Luke 6:27-36

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